Coffee, Cake & Mortali-Tea!

Michelle Clayford (she/her); a queer, ND, Brown woman, from Black Cats and Unicorns Celebrancy, is inviting the local LGBTQIA+ community to join the conversation about death, dying, and grief in ways that resonate with them during this year’s Dying Matters Awareness Week (5–11 May 2025).

The national campaign, led by Hospice UK, encourages open and honest discussions about end of life experiences. This year’s theme, The Culture of Dying Matters, delves into the diverse ways communities across the UK discuss, navigate, and commemorate death and dying, while emphasising the shared emotions that connect us all in grief and loss.

Dying matters and dying well, matters even more. For Michelle, preparing for the inevitable is an act of love towards yourself, your partner, your friends and your blood, or chosen, family. “For the LGBTQIA+ communities, it’s especially crucial that we have open and honest conversations about this. If you want your wishes, your life story, and your love, to be respected when you’re gone, it’s essential to let the important people in your life know what you want. I know it can be overwhelming to prepare for the future, but I’m here to help you make it easier.”

Michelle is hosting a friendly gathering on Friday, May 9th, between 3 and 4 pm at Flamingo’s Coffee House in Central Arcade, Leeds city centre. Michelle said “It’s a chance to come together, grab a drink, and chat about this important topic. No need to feel morbid or uncomfortable, let’s have a honest and respectful conversation. You may have questions about Lasting Power of Attorney or what the difference is between a shroud or a coffin. You may want to discuss holding a service somewhere other than a crematorium.” Pop in and discover that talking about death doesn't have to be scary!

U'18's are welcome.