Episodes
It's our first studio episode of 2022! Will Dan stop saying 'whatnot' this year?! Can James stop sending Dan e-mails saying 'let me know?'. We're setting each other some New Years Resolutions. Is it normal to be annoyed by your boyfriend/girlfriend/theyfriend? Plus some, err, washing up chat.
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We're starting the New Year with major inspiration for 2022. Join us as we celebrate some of the most iconic voices from our podcast in the last 12 months, featuring Billy Porter, Juno Dawson, Vanessa Feltz, Dustin Lance Black & more.
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We're serving Krystal for Christmas! James & Dan welcome the winner of RuPaul's Drag Race UK Season 3, Krystal Versace! We find out how she first stepped into drag, why it's important to talk about her virginity and her thoughts on the show's first ever straight cis-male contestant, Maddy Morphosis. Your turn next Dan? Merry Christmas from A Gay and A NonGay! x
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James and Dan are joined by iconic barrister, speaker and author Mohsin Zaidi about his must read memoir A Dutiful Boy, A Memoir of A Gay Muslim’s Journey to Acceptance.
We chat about Mohsin’s superhero parents and their Kryptonite, conversion therapy Witch Doctors - and James learns about bidets. If you are Muslim and LGBTQ+ and need help, visit Hidayah - https://hidayahlgbt.com/ - the leading Queer Muslim charity.
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Dan and James reflect on the release of their new BBC documentary ‘Sashay To Hell’ set at Bloodstock, the UK’s premier extreme metal festival. Spoiler alert, James still doesn’t like the screaming.
If you’re in the UK, watch ‘Sashay To Hell’ here - https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p0b5xyds/radio-1-stories-sashay-to-hell
If you’re outside the UK, watch the extended trailer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q-LSRBYIs8c
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Today we're joined by the Reverend Brandon Robertson, writer, activist and preacher, who rose to fame during the pandemic as the TikTok Preacher. We’ll hear about the gays in the Bible, how the word homosexual wasn’t even in the Bible until 1946 and his experiences undergoing conversion therapy. Brandon also also debunks some of evangelical Christianity’s favourite hate-speech.
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It's another bonus episode featuring RuPaul's Drag Race UK's Vanity Milan.
We find out why Vanity near quit the show, what the producers of RPDR UK can do to encourage more POC queens and discuss that Scandalous lip sync!
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Dan doesn't do flowers or dead cats. James is celebrating Australian Footballer Josh Cavallo coming out and we find out what makes a gay wedding, gay... according to NonGay's.
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November is Transgender Awareness Month. Dan and James catch up with singer, songwriter, dancer, actress and LGBTQ+ activist Mila Jam.
Today we find out why it's ok to call straight men ‘girl', we chat pronouns and celebrate Mila's fabulous new version of 'It's Raining Men'. Plus, will Dave Chapelle get cancelled? If you love this episode please share it with a friend, tag us @gaynongay. Kisses!
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Every town has one, Scarlett Harlett! It's another bonus episode of Sashay NonGay, our mini series featuring the fallen queens of Drag Race UK Season 3! Spoilers ahead. Today Scarlett describes watching her untucked meltdown as her own 'personal hell'. We find out the latest on Mama Harlett and discuss everyone's favourite wet lettuce.
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SPOILERS!
Sashay NonGay is back sweeties. River Medway officially launches Christmas for us, Choriza May discusses RuPaul's 'disrespectful' decision to send two of our favourite queens home and we're introduced to Dan's new game 'Fork or Pork'.
Watch Choriza May's new music video, 'My Pussy Is A Peach' here.
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It's another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, featuring alternative drag royalty, Charity Kase!
Charity talks about her shock sashay from the show, reveals the impact of the show on her mental health and her experience as only the third ever RPDR queen to come out as HIV-positive.
Visit www.charitykase.com for Charity's store and live dates! Love you babes x
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We discuss the straight male gaze and James thinks Dan might be a pot calling the kettle black after his comments at our Big Gay Show.
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Theydies and Gentletheys, the icon, the moment, Billy Porter!
Billy Porter joins us to chat about his new song Children, Unprotected: A Memoir and his forthcoming Ryan Murphy film documenting his coming out as HIV Positive. This is an episode about creating space, owning our truth as queer people and learning to diminish our shame to become the best version of ourselves there is. Contains spoilers from POSE season 3.
Stream Billy Porter's new song Children now, https://billyporter.lnk.to/childrenWE.
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Spoiler Alert. Today we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race Royalty, Veronica Green and the show's first ever AFAB Queen Victoria Scone.
Veronica reveals that she's not replied to apology texts from A'Whora, whilst Victoria talks about leaving the show too soon. Plus Dan plays another round of Drag or Death.
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Welcome to another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, The Sashay NonGay Podcast!
This is your official SPOILER ALERT. Today we welcome Elektra Fence! We play 'Snatch Game', discuss Jane McDonald's status as a gay icon and the redemption of Crystal.
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This live recording of our podcast features extremely adult content.
Finally! Felicity Ward, Sophie Anderson and as James puts it, 'the original Cock Destroyer' Vanessa Feltz join us live at our Big Gay Show in London. In this riotous recording Felicity comes out as bisexual, Sophie propositions Vanessa and we find out why 'Feltz Towers' will never be the same again.
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Welcome to a bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay and the first EVER Sashay NonGay Podcast!
Alongside your favourite straight man’s hilarious Ru-Cap videos on Instagram, we’re also putting out special bonus episodes with our UK queens as they leave #DragRaceUK.
This is your official SPOILER ALERT. Today we welcome Anubis Finch! We discuss the 'The Brighton Curse', her relationship with Victoria Scone and Dan pitches some NonGay drag names.
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James is navigating life without alcohol right now and the boys discuss Lil Nas X's masterpiece, Montero.
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Does getting married make LGBTQ+ people ‘normal?’ Is getting married selling out to the patriarchy and heteronormativity or it is an act of activism? We are joined by singer, drag queen, writer Tom Rasmussen. Tom's new book, First Comes Love is an exploration of marriage in the 21st century and is one of our favourite reads this year.
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Dan is parading around as a Madonna expert and James is worried about getting trench foot. Plus, should straight people pay a tax to attend LGBTQ+ events? Let us know in our listener group, www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/
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Salutations... Today we welcome the icon, the myth, Lady Vanessa Feltz.
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Dan's taken James to Bloodstock Open Air, the UK's biggest Heavy Metal Festival. We’ve been working on a top-secret project and we can’t wait for you to see it!!! More soon 😘.
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Today we're joined by British-Jamaican swimmer Michael Gunning. We chat about his journey as an openly gay member of Team Jamaica, Team LGBTQ+'s success at The Olympics 2020. plus Tom Daley's speech and what it means for LGBTQ+ representation sport.
We've announced our first iconic guest at our Big Gay Show! The hilarious Felicity Ward. Get tickets now at www.gaynongay.com/live. We can't wait to see you on Friday 10th September.
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Ringlight my Fire. James keeps sending ring lights to Dan. Meanwhile Dan's been busy telling everyone he’s not an LGBTQ+ ally?! Plus we discover that sourdough is 'too long, wide and thick' for a conventional toaster.
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James and Dan are joined from Los Angeles by film executive, TV host & creator of the hilarious podcast Don't Tell My Mother, Nikki Levy. We hear the story Nikki doesn't want her mother to hear, plus there's vibrator chat and we find out why she hardly has any straight guests on the show.
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Dan thinks he knows a thing or two about 'bottoming' 😂, and we welcome the return of an old friend, The Velvet Rage.
Our Big Gay Live Show is coming to London, see us live on Friday 10th September at 9.15pm! Get tickets at www.gaynongay.com/live.
This week’s episode is sponsored by Transport for London. Visit madeby.tfl.gov.uk/i-stand-with to find out more about how TfL are standing up against hate crime on the public transport network.
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James thinks this was the 'straightest' Pride Month yet? Meanwhile Dan has a revelation about his favourite Ace of Base song - and do gays deliberately mis-spell? Plus we chat mental health and botox!
See us live in London this summer! We're playing Underbelly Festival on Friday 9th September and can't wait to meet you in real life, visit www.gaynongay.com/live for tickets.
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Dan and James are so excited to be joined by the hilarious Tom Allen. On the agenda - Why Tom is no longer waiting for the weather with Tomas Schafernaker, Dan sellotaping headphones to his ears, regifting, sourdough pride and are The Apprentice candidates all sleeping with each other? All this and more in our final episode of Pride Month.
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It's episode 250 of A Gay and A NonGay!!! Dan finally agrees with James on a long standing issue... Plus we're joined by screenwriter, fierce activist, academy award winning Dustin Lance Black.
There's powerful moments on allyship, the UK's inaction on conversion therapy and we chat family as Dustin describes his journey to fatherhood with Tom Daley.
WE LOVE YOU! Thank you so much for listening. Here's to the next 250!
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