Episodes
It's Pride Month and James and Dan are back with a whole host of fabulous guests.
First up, Jake and Hannah Graf the UK’s first transgender parents.
Jake is an international multi award winning director, writer and actor.
Hannah is formerly the highest ranking transgender officer of the British Army.
We talk about trans dating, why life is so much harder for trans women than trans men - and James and Dan find out if Hannah and Jake will end up in the Dragon’s Den.
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Burn the bridge Becky. People keep telling James he's "too gay". In this episode we hear about James' new stand up hour 'Straight Jokes' and his experience working as an openly gay man in the media.
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Do all straight white men live in Kent? James thinks so 😝. Dan's learning stand up comedy and we reflect on his enormous success at the Shakespeare Marathon - he's raised over £6000 for Marie Curie Solihull in memory of his mum and counting - but James is bored of hearing about all of his many media appearances. Jealous much?!
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Dan and James are joined by Suki Sandhu OBE. He's a CEO and author of the book, A Judgement-Free Guide to Diversity and Inclusion for Straight White Men
On the agenda - How can you tell when a business is just pinkwashing? Should social media companies give allies rainbow ticks? And why can't we say BAME anymore?
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James and Dan are joined by multi-award winning film director Sebastian Meise to talk about his new film The Great Freedom. We learn all about the history of Paragraph 175 that criminalised homosexuality in Germany, plus his research trips to dark rooms and the beauty he found 👀.
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Dan gives James his Christmas present... in April! James discovers the true meaning of Banoffee Pie, and the boys discuss Pam And Tommy.
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In memory of A Gay And A NonGay’s biggest fan.
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James wants to know if you can be gay and happy? Plus is it okay for LGBTQ+ people to work with organisations with a problematic past?
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James and Dan welcome internet sensation Chloe Moriondo to our podcast 🐈. Chloe tells us about growing up queer on the internet, outing their friends, coming out backwards and the 'straight panic' it's caused now that they also fancies boys... sometimes.
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We've been nominated for a British LGBT Award! Vote now at www.gaynongay.com 🥇💗! Thank you so much, we love you!
How do you balance your queerness in a vaguely 'heteronormative relationship'? Plus today we find out if James is still sober and there's a huge announcement!
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To celebrate 'Birmingham Day' (which may or may not be happening this year...) we welcome RuPaul's Drag Race UK superstar icon and ultimate hun Kitty Scott-Claus! We chat Snatch Game, Kitty spills Lisa Scott-Lee secrets and we meet Kitty's friends Jane McDonald, Cilla Black, Gemma Collins, Nadine Coyle & loads more.
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Dan takes his delusion to a new low as he starts a career as a Jamie Dornan look-alike. Need a (supposed) Jamie Dornan lookalike for anything? Enquire within.
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In a very special extended episode for LGBT History Month, James and Dan are delighted and honoured to welcome the legendary British human rights campaigner, Peter Tatchell.
Originally from Australia, Peter has been campaigning on issues of LGBT equality, human rights, democracy, civil liberties, and global justice since 1967.
We hear about his career as a protestor, including the public outing of gay bishops, disrupting the Archbishop of Canterbury's Easter Service, attempting to arrest Robert Mugabe and being beaten up by neo-Nazis in Russia.
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It's been a rough week for James as he discovers he’s been playing the wrong Wordle. We chat Grindr hook ups, the importance of our queer history and the new BBC drama Four Lives.
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James responds to an article in The Mail On Sunday, which suggested a piece he wrote about pronouns was 'misleading'.
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View The Trevor Project's guide to being an ally to trans and non binary youth https://www.thetrevorproject.org/resources/guide/a-guide-to-being-an-ally-to-transgender-and-nonbinary-youth/.
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We discuss the UK government's pardon for historic same-sex convictions and talk about Priti Patel’s Anti-Refugee Bill. Plus James didn't think he needed to explain cruise bars to Dan, but he does.
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It's our first studio episode of 2022! Will Dan stop saying 'whatnot' this year?! Can James stop sending Dan e-mails saying 'let me know?'. We're setting each other some New Years Resolutions. Is it normal to be annoyed by your boyfriend/girlfriend/theyfriend? Plus some, err, washing up chat.
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We're starting the New Year with major inspiration for 2022. Join us as we celebrate some of the most iconic voices from our podcast in the last 12 months, featuring Billy Porter, Juno Dawson, Vanessa Feltz, Dustin Lance Black & more.
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We're serving Krystal for Christmas! James & Dan welcome the winner of RuPaul's Drag Race UK Season 3, Krystal Versace! We find out how she first stepped into drag, why it's important to talk about her virginity and her thoughts on the show's first ever straight cis-male contestant, Maddy Morphosis. Your turn next Dan? Merry Christmas from A Gay and A NonGay! x
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James and Dan are joined by iconic barrister, speaker and author Mohsin Zaidi about his must read memoir A Dutiful Boy, A Memoir of A Gay Muslim’s Journey to Acceptance.
We chat about Mohsin’s superhero parents and their Kryptonite, conversion therapy Witch Doctors - and James learns about bidets. If you are Muslim and LGBTQ+ and need help, visit Hidayah - https://hidayahlgbt.com/ - the leading Queer Muslim charity.
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Dan and James reflect on the release of their new BBC documentary ‘Sashay To Hell’ set at Bloodstock, the UK’s premier extreme metal festival. Spoiler alert, James still doesn’t like the screaming.
If you’re in the UK, watch ‘Sashay To Hell’ here - https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/p0b5xyds/radio-1-stories-sashay-to-hell
If you’re outside the UK, watch the extended trailer - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q-LSRBYIs8c
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Today we're joined by the Reverend Brandon Robertson, writer, activist and preacher, who rose to fame during the pandemic as the TikTok Preacher. We’ll hear about the gays in the Bible, how the word homosexual wasn’t even in the Bible until 1946 and his experiences undergoing conversion therapy. Brandon also also debunks some of evangelical Christianity’s favourite hate-speech.
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It's another bonus episode featuring RuPaul's Drag Race UK's Vanity Milan.
We find out why Vanity near quit the show, what the producers of RPDR UK can do to encourage more POC queens and discuss that Scandalous lip sync!
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Dan doesn't do flowers or dead cats. James is celebrating Australian Footballer Josh Cavallo coming out and we find out what makes a gay wedding, gay... according to NonGay's.
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November is Transgender Awareness Month. Dan and James catch up with singer, songwriter, dancer, actress and LGBTQ+ activist Mila Jam.
Today we find out why it's ok to call straight men ‘girl', we chat pronouns and celebrate Mila's fabulous new version of 'It's Raining Men'. Plus, will Dave Chapelle get cancelled? If you love this episode please share it with a friend, tag us @gaynongay. Kisses!
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Every town has one, Scarlett Harlett! It's another bonus episode of Sashay NonGay, our mini series featuring the fallen queens of Drag Race UK Season 3! Spoilers ahead. Today Scarlett describes watching her untucked meltdown as her own 'personal hell'. We find out the latest on Mama Harlett and discuss everyone's favourite wet lettuce.
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SPOILERS!
Sashay NonGay is back sweeties. River Medway officially launches Christmas for us, Choriza May discusses RuPaul's 'disrespectful' decision to send two of our favourite queens home and we're introduced to Dan's new game 'Fork or Pork'.
Watch Choriza May's new music video, 'My Pussy Is A Peach' here.
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It's another bonus episode of A Gay and A NonGay, featuring alternative drag royalty, Charity Kase!
Charity talks about her shock sashay from the show, reveals the impact of the show on her mental health and her experience as only the third ever RPDR queen to come out as HIV-positive.
Visit www.charitykase.com for Charity's store and live dates! Love you babes x
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We discuss the straight male gaze and James thinks Dan might be a pot calling the kettle black after his comments at our Big Gay Show.
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Theydies and Gentletheys, the icon, the moment, Billy Porter!
Billy Porter joins us to chat about his new song Children, Unprotected: A Memoir and his forthcoming Ryan Murphy film documenting his coming out as HIV Positive. This is an episode about creating space, owning our truth as queer people and learning to diminish our shame to become the best version of ourselves there is. Contains spoilers from POSE season 3.
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